A parent told
me, “My child with Asperger’s has tunnel vision. He can only see what’s of interest to him at
the moment. The rest of the world
doesn’t exist.” Indeed, the term tunnel vision has been applied to people
on the Autism spectrum since Lovaas first used it in 1971.
Keeping in
mind the caveat that My Young Traveler who has ASD taught me, “When you know
one person with autism, you know ONE PERSON with autism,” I offer what seems
like an obvious piece of critical advice to students with ASD who are preparing
for post-secondary education.
Never skip a college class. Not a lecture. Not a lab. Not a field experience. JUST. GO. TO. CLASS.
This advice
sounds so obvious as to be ridiculous. But
it needs to be said because when our students with ASDs failed their college
courses, lack of ability was seldom the reason.
Skipping class often was.
We never
expected that.
Sometimes one
of our students didn’t arrive at campus until after the first day of class and
thereby started off in the academic hole, missing the course overview, the
professor’s syllabus review, the reading assignment due for the next class day,
and a shot at choosing a good seat to reduce potential student-specific
distractions (air vent noise, window glare, open door distractions).
Some
students started skipping class the very first week. Maybe the freedom of sleeping in with no
parent to enforce getting to class was irresistible. Maybe the anxiety of going to a first class
where one didn’t know what to expect was the reason. Or maybe the anxiety of failing to read the
assignment given on Monday for Wednesday’s class caused the absence.
Sometimes
students skipped class because they were upset about a personal problem. Sometimes they skipped one class to finish
the homework for another class.
Sometimes they hadn’t awakened early enough to have breakfast, so they opted
to go eat instead of go to class.
Sometimes they were having such fun with their new friends that they
didn’t want to leave the camaraderie.
None of these choices had a good outcome.
Missing a
class the first time seemed to be a watershed moment. We found that once a student missed her first
class, her attendance often cascaded downhill.
Skipping the next class was easier; attending, harder. A professor told us, “Your freshman is a
genius. Her comments are like those of a
graduate student. But she’s already
missed half the classes during the first three weeks, and I can’t allow her to
continue.”
So I offer some
advice.
1) Don’t schedule classes before noon.
2) Try an online class, but don’t fall
behind.
3) Live at home so your parents can help
you stay accountable for attending class.
4) Go to class even if you haven’t
completed the homework.
5) Go to class even if you don’t feel
like it.
6) Go to class even if you don’t like
the instructor.
7) JUST. GO. TO. CLASS. PERIOD.
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